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If one of you were a teacher, for example, I’d tell you not to even consider it. If you’re working with kids, that’s in the “don’t risk it” category; people really, really don’t like that combination.
If you’re working with other populations, it might not be as absolute a no-go — although still carries risk, perhaps significantly so. Regardless of your field, though, I think you’d want to game out how you’d handle it if it ever did come out and led to a worst-case scenario.
We are doing great and are frugal in a low cost of living city, but due to a lack of a safety net, that could easily change anytime (I understand other Americans are in this predicament as well). And if it got out on Porn Hub, well, we are married. Could someone videotape one of the online sessions you do and post it online?
I wrote back to this letter-writer and said: “I’m not automatically going to tell you not to do it! And if that happened, could you have it taken down since it was done without your permission?
We are working class folk who clawed our way to this earning power (he supported me for six years and I obtained my BS and MSW, and finally I’m a licensed clinical social worker).
Maybe you’re someone who looks dramatically different in a wig? We have looked on Porn Hub and while some of the videos were probably self promotion, some were obviously not.
) And do you have a sense of how much money you might be able to make doing it (since that plays into risk vs. I could ask for them to take it down, but I don’t know if they would comply; their privacy info on the website is vague.lol, we could probably use bandit disguises but I don’t think that would help with long-term tips/landing fans who will follow us; we are an interracial couple and I have tattoos so that might hurt us; I’m a black woman and I do look different in wigs but probably not THAT different.
Someone who knows one of you professionally could see it before you have it taken down (or you might never know it’s posted since you can’t check all possible places it could turn up).
And people can be pretty horrid when they learn someone is involved in sex work. There are some lines of work where I’d say you absolutely shouldn’t risk it unless you were willing to lose your career over it.